When Sigrún checked out her family tree online, it wasn’t to find out if she and Einar were related – it was how closely related

We have more satisfying sex now – partly because we are super-efficient about dividing childcare duties

I’ve started to see our sex life as being a bit like a car; I like to be continually tinkering away at it

Tao grew up in a conservative family and era – so how did meeting Chen, who was younger and more experimental, change him?

After seven years together, we’ve started to have great sex. It’s taken time to shed my sexual guilt

He wasn’t used to talking about sex, and his fantasies tended to be quite safe

Rob used to be hyper-monogamous – but then he met Mikey and discovered a whole world of experimentation

I’ve resisted the idea of fooling around – I feared the subtext was that I wasn’t enough

It was wonderful seeing Rob glowing in the knowledge that he is irresistible